; by so doing you submit to those outward things; confess that you are their slave; and they your unconditional master; by so doing; you invest them with a power which they do not; of themselves; possess; and you succumb; in reality; not to the mere circumstances; but to the gloom or gladness; the fear or hope; the strength or weakness; which your thought…sphere has thrown around them。
I knew two men who; at an early age; lost the hard…earned savings of years。 One was very deeply troubled; and gave way to chagrin; worry; and despondency。
The other; on reading in his morning paper that the bank in which his money was deposited had hopelessly failed; and that he had lost all; quietly and firmly remarked; “Well; it’s gone; and trouble and worry won’t bring it back; but hard work will。”
He went to work with renewed vigor; and rapidly became prosperous; while the former man; continuing to mourn the loss of his money; and to grumble at his “bad luck” remained the sport and tool of adverse circumstances; in reality of his own weak and slavish thoughts。
The loss of money was a curse to the one because he clothed the event with dark and dreary thoughts; it was a blessing to the other; because he threw around it thoughts of strength; of hope; and renewed endeavor。
If circumstances had the power to bless or harm; they would bless and harm all men alike; but the fact that the same circumstances will be alike good and bad to different souls proves that the good or bad is not in the circumstance; but only in the mind of him that encounters it。
When you begin to realize this you will begin to control your thoughts; to regulate and discipline your mind; and to rebuild the inward temple of your soul; eliminating all useless and superfluous mater